Professional Matchmaking For Elite Singles

Select Date Society started with the idea that singles today need a better option in the dating arena. In listening to the experiences of singles for decades, our Matchmakers have come to understand that each client has very specific needs to succeed. Our elite matchmakers take a tailored approach to create an opportunity for clients to have optimum success. The one size fits all approach of most services, whethe online dating or personal matchmaking, doesn’t seem to produce the results clients desire. ... Read More
SDS clients expect to be one of the select few, not one of many, as it is with large franchise organizations. Clients choose Select Date Society for the exclusiveness of a limited clientele and our highly seasoned team of Professional Matchmakers. SDS Matchmakers will take the time to custom-fit a program specifically for you to achieve your desired end goal. Our clients feel confident that our team will exceed their quality and service expectations.
Most singles we have worked with throughout the years actually have most of the criteria to be in a successful relationship. The challenge has been more about the access to quality singles rather than meeting people in general. In other cases, we have worked with singles that appreciate the additional support from their own Professional Matchmaker. They choose to gain insight and utilize date feedback from their Matchmaker to ensure they assess each date accurately. Clients find their Matchmaker’s input highly effective in providing confidence in their decision-making and accelerating their end goal.
We know that no one will be determined and persevere when they are blindly dating. You will find the dating world more of an arduous task, a means to an end, rather than a fun dating experience. Select Date Society Matchmakers will quickly play an integral role in turning that around!
If you are searching for a unique professional approach to your dating efforts that encourages and supports you in your endeavor, then Select Date Society is the perfect choice. Our approach has always been to take care of the client, and the business will take care of itself. Our firm puts singles back in the driver’s seat, so they can actually get excited about dating again! So whether you are just getting back into the dating arena or you are someone ready to find the love of your life, SDS Matchmakers will make that happen!
Select Date Society provides singles with a fun dating experience while maintaining incredibly high standards of selection and service. SDS allows selective singles to feel supported and, more importantly, understood. Select Date Society personally tailors the service by membership level to encompass the client’s expectations and provide whatever is necessary for their success. We set singles up to succeed while eliminating the time investment of dating on their own.
The goal is to make dating fun, with a specific action plan to achieve success. Whether our Matchmakers are involved minimally or you want their full support, SDS will be laser-focused on making this last life challenge achievable! Read Less
Amber Lee

Amber Lee

CEO & Co-Founder

Amber is a certified matchmaker, enneagram coach, Gottman 7 Principles leader, and strategic intervention coach with a bachelor’s degree in business administration. She has been a professional matchmaker since 1998. Amber combines her experience, knowledge, and intuition to help her clients find their perfect match!
Sandra Myers

Sandra Myers

President & Co-Founder

Sandra is a certified Matchmaker with a degree in speech communications and organizational management. Sandra has been a professional matchmaker since 1996. Her ability to quickly read singles and instinctively ascertain the qualities needed to make a great connection, has been the key to her success. Clients love her no nonsense approach, expertise and passion for getting results.
The partnership of Amber & Sandra began with the idea of becoming the “Gold Standard” of matchmaking. They both believe that the business would care for itself if it focused on client outcomes rather than the next new client. With 50 years of combined experience in the industry, they have created the best dating options for accomplished single professionals and hired the best team of professional matchmakers in the industry. This highly seasoned group of matchmakers has the expertise and experience that deliver clients the results they deserve!
Read More The company’s strength comes from the combined talents of both Amber & Sandra. Amber has forged incredible relationships throughout the years, bringing that breadth of resources to the company. Success in this industry is definitely all about the resources you have and the relationships you have maintained. Sandra has focused her attention on the customer’s experience and how SDS could elevate that for their clients. This was accomplished by creating an environment where clients feel like family rather than just another number in a pool of people. SDS is where clients now have a way to engage in their dating life with a positive attitude and a genuine excitement for what’s next. Clients know that the company they invested in is equally as invested in their outcome and will support their efforts in every way possible.
While SDS cares for your heart, know you will care for someone else’s. Amber has an extraordinary personal story of surviving a sudden cardiac arrest. To honor Amber’s miracle, SDS is committed to giving back to this incredible organization with every heart we touch! Select Date Society will donate a portion of your membership directly to the American Heart Association. Read Less

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What Does a matchmaker do?
Pricing for exclusive matchmaking isn’t one-size-fits-all—and with good reason. You’re not just paying for introductions; you’re investing in a highly personalized and discreet service built around your goals.
Most luxury matchmaking services begin around $65,000, and for the most premium programs, the investment can reach well into the six figures. What you’re really paying for is access: to a curated network, experienced matchmakers, ongoing guidance, and the time saved in finding the right person without the noise of modern dating apps.
It’s important to ask not just what the service costs—but what you’re getting in return. Look at real reviews, ask about success stories, and don’t hesitate to dig into how they operate once the contract is signed.
What Is A Luxury Matchmaker?
Pricing for exclusive matchmaking isn’t one-size-fits-all—and with good reason. You’re not just paying for introductions; you’re investing in a highly personalized and discreet service built around your goals.
Most luxury matchmaking services begin around $65,000, and for the most premium programs, the investment can reach well into the six figures. What you’re really paying for is access: to a curated network, experienced matchmakers, ongoing guidance, and the time saved in finding the right person without the noise of modern dating apps.
It’s important to ask not just what the service costs—but what you’re getting in return. Look at real reviews, ask about success stories, and don’t hesitate to dig into how they operate once the contract is signed.
Do Matchmaking services actually work?
Pricing for exclusive matchmaking isn’t one-size-fits-all—and with good reason. You’re not just paying for introductions; you’re investing in a highly personalized and discreet service built around your goals.
Most luxury matchmaking services begin around $65,000, and for the most premium programs, the investment can reach well into the six figures. What you’re really paying for is access: to a curated network, experienced matchmakers, ongoing guidance, and the time saved in finding the right person without the noise of modern dating apps.
It’s important to ask not just what the service costs—but what you’re getting in return. Look at real reviews, ask about success stories, and don’t hesitate to dig into how they operate once the contract is signed.